I am doing this out of sheer frustration.  Women are supposed to be submissive, docile, and act in a certain subservient manner.  That is all good, as long as we are honored, respected, and treated with dignity.  We should never settle for less than what we need and desire.  I am going to take back my voice.  I am no longer going to put up with the bullshit that comes with settling...and whatever it takes to get it, I'll do.  Until then, I am going to do to others, what has been done since the age of time...selfishly worry about my own needs and conquests.